There are a few types of bullying, verbally, physically and emotionally. Verbally including name calling, gossiping just basically talking about that person behind there back. Physical bullying is physical abuse including hitting, slapping, punching etc.. and Emotional bullying includes spreading rumours, making that person feel very uncomfortable hurting the emotional side of them. Often Bullies bully there victims for a long period of time increasing the victims fear and stress. Most Bullies bully because they themselves have been bullied before. They feel in control. Most bullies want attention, they take there anger and own problems out on those who don't deserve it. Bullying makes them feel higher than everyone else and important. They get noticed and that's what they want. Bully's are normally really week people, and are afraid themselves but they bully to try prove there not or to hide it. A bully is a person that has never learnt to accept responsibility of there own behaviour. They are unable to recognise the results of there behaviour on there victims and can't accept there are other ways of behaving.
In my opinion bullying is wrong obviously, no one should be picked on because there in the wrong place at the wrong time or because of there appearance, religion, etc. Know one should get judged for they reasons. The real person is inside, if they decide to go ahead and bully them not knowing who they are then they don't know what there dealing with. Bully's don't care who there victims are as long as they feel in control and important. I myself have never been bullied, some victims bring upon them selves but most of them are innocent just a thing bully's can play with get a kick out of hurting them. I never drew much attention to myself in school, i always got along with people. Never really spoke about people behind there backs, if i had something to say i would say it to there faces. I never took sides with people, i was never in a group of people i varied from Friends, and if someone stood up to me for whatever reason i wouldn't hide and cry about it i would stay there and sort the situation out. Unlike most vicimts they are afraid to stand up to bullies, they would hide from the problem and not tell anyone, but if i had a problem i would stand up and admit it and not hide away. Maybe that's the reason i wasn't bullied.
I think there should be more help at school, colleges etc for those are getting bullied. When i was at school all the teacher would turn around and say is " just ignore them, they'll stop eventually" but they never did, one of my friends was getting bullied so she told a teacher and they said that exact thing. Then the bully found out and it made the situation 10x worse. She got bullied more seriously and was to afraid to say anything. She eventually moved school. Teachers should take bullying more seriously and deal with the situation rather than putting it to one side basically.
Bullying in general should be dealt with more seriously, and there should be more help out there for bullying victims.
